1 more bitching post for the day

i just vented to my mom about my situation with people always putting in their 2 cents! and she informed me that a family member came into her work today and my mom said told her she was off tomorrow to take me to a dr appt (this family member doesn't know about this current m/c, but I guess she assumed what was going on). the family member said "wasn't she supposed to wait 3 months to get pregnant!" My mom didn't respond but just turned the other way to this rude comment. This same person after my first m/c never ever gave any sympathy but said, "well you shouldn't test that early. you wouldn't have known you had a m/c if you wouldn't have tested!" b/c I was late for my period.... that is usually an indication!! i love my family, but why put in your negative comments! especially when I'm crying or going through a really hard time!! wow today is full of fun-ness!