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So you know there are just a few of those people who always want to be putting in their comments and telling you what you should be doing!!! F-ing pisses me off!! I'm shaking right now! I know she is trying to be kind, but seriously you are way to overbearing for me right now! This is tidbits of our conversation:

her: "so and so are pregnant" me: "yeah I know" (thanks by the way for calling to tell me that right now) her: "you know they have been going to a fertility specialist for a long time too" me: "yeah I know. shes also in her 30's, has been trying for awhile, and had a m/c" her: "okay so you keep saying you are counting from the date of your last period/miscarriage. well you didn't conceive then so you aren't counting right" Me: (seriously what the fuck! do you not think I know how this pregnancy stuff works. so I go on to explain to her the 1st 2 weeks you aren't actually pregnant yet blah blah freaking blah) her: "well are you just going in to get a d&c? b/c so and so says you shouldn't do that. they need to do bloodwork and check and make sure!" me: (no shit! my dr isn't dumb!) "yes that is what my appt is for tomorrow" her: "well how are they really gonna check? are you going to ask for a sonogram?" me: "that is what they are doing!!!" I think I blacked out the rest of the conversation from being so angry. Don't take this post the wrong way, I love when some of you give me stories of friends you know that had something done and it was a success or just positive comments. But I absolutely can't stand when someone who hasn't been through this tells you what you should be doing like I haven't thought of everything! Please listen, give advice if I ask for it, but don't tell me whats best for me or question me that I don't know anything about conceiving/pregnancy right now! Seriously!